Each type as a partner.
Benedict's Chapter VI was titled Types That Should and Should Not Marry Each Other. The 1921 prescription has been retired; the structural observations underneath it have not. Each type loves in a particular register, asks for particular things, and has a failure mode worth knowing in advance.
Built to be loved by being needed.
Built to be loved by being chosen, repeatedly, in the live moment.
Built to be loved through what is done together, not what is said about it.
Built to be loved by being kept, quietly, for decades.
Built to be loved by being known.